“The Shocking experience. “OpenShock” is an open-source platform designed to control various shocking devices over the internet, catering to all your masochistic needs!” #BDSM #kink #sex
on 02026-06-03#video #toread about #BDSM “sub training”. #sex
on 02026-04-15Chesed writes about attending a “Red means No” #BDSM orgy. “I wish I could tell you exactly what happened — how and when he peeled off my underwear and threw me around — but my memories are blurry. I remember how helpless I felt under him, the strength of his arms, the pressure of his body on top of me, and the pleasure I felt with the entrance of his cock. I wasn’t in a particularly fight-y mood and I was very attracted to him, so I struggled just enough to get a sense of his overwhelming strength. (...) As I later discussed with Pandora, my problem with the Sybian may be in part that I am used to orgasming laying down.”
on 02025-09-15“Brent [Dill] sexually abused me [Elizabeth] over the course of our year-and-a-half-long relationship. At the start of our relationship Brent was 39 and I was 19 (I’ve had healthy age-gap relationships, but in retrospect I think this was an unhealthy one); (...) Brent pressured me into #BDSM scenes with gear I hated, pain and discomfort well past my tolerance, insufficient safety protocols, and sometimes drug use. There were dozens of times that he verbally pressured me into an intimate situation I wasn’t comfortable with, saying that if I loved him or cared about him I’d do it. There were fewer times, but probably still dozens, that he didn’t ensure I had a safeword when going into a really heavy scene, or disrespected my safeword when I gave it.” written in September 02018. Holy shit. But it gets worse: “Throughout the relationship he talked about how his ex had submitted much more completely and usefully than me, and how it would be great if I didn’t believe I had the option of escape, if I didn’t have a safeword or social support network. (...) The argument escalated really fast, until he was banging his head on the windowsill. Our landlord had complained before about us making too much noise in that room in the evenings; in the moment, I decided that the best way to get him to stop really fast was to punch him in the face (and that this was okay because he had a history of hurting me with dubious consent / he’d been giving dubious consent for months with the “hit me” comments). Immediately after it was obvious to me that I’d been wrong and used terrible judgement, (...)” #intimate-partner-abuse
on 02025-09-15Nadia Eghbal speaks out against Dries Buytaert’s #public-shaming of #Larry-Garfield for being #Gorean, and also firing him from all his Drupal-related positions. ‘In the past, Dries might’ve kicked Larry out because “BDSM is a threat to family values”. Today, leaders like Dries kick Larry out because “#BDSM is a threat to gender equality”.’
on 02017-05-02D’Orto tells a story, in Spanish, of transgender #BDSM with a 75-year-old woman to whom he was a sexually subservient maid.
on 02016-12-07